Victims & Survivors at the Center

1. The courage of victims who reach out for help, trusting us with their safety
2. Every survivor who believes they deserve better, even when the odds are stacked against them
3. Survivor voices being elevated in everything we do
4. The 17-year-olds who are brave enough to ask for help
5. Every person who uses Simply Report to take their first step toward freedom
6. Every single victim who trusts Safe House Project’s team to get them to safety

Programs & Innovation

1. Simply Report – our technology platform connecting victims to help
2. Our ability to certify community-based programs nationwide
3. The goal to certify 100 programs and the progress we’re making
4. CORE – our certification program raising the standard of survivor care
5. Team Protector’s Podcast launching to expand our reach

Growth & Impact

1. Record-breaking growth in identification and support requests
2. States requiring anti-trafficking training or the use of Simply Report
3. Certifying community-based programs that serve survivors with excellence
4. The improvements we’ve made in how we serve based on survivor feedback and data
5. Every barrier to services we’ve been able to remove
6. Training that has reached hundreds of thousands of people

Our Response Team

1. Volunteers who answer our response line, ready to help 24/7
2. The taxi driver who dropped everything to help a victim in need
3. Team members who take the toughest cases and find a way to help
4. Staff who understand mental health crises and respond with consistency and compassion
5. The steadiness of our operations team making things happen behind the scenes every day

Partners & Community

1. Partner programs hungry to learn, connect, and grow together
2. Anti-trafficking organizations across the US working to break down barriers
3. Task forces fighting to eradicate trafficking from multiple angles
4. Partners and collaborators who do the work without needing recognition
5. Our Community Review Board volunteers who guide our work

Supporters

1. $700,000+ raised through our annual Galas
2. Every donor, including those who give $5 a month
3. Record donations that allow us to expand our reach
4. Funds raised through partner initiatives and fundraising events
5. People who believe this work matters enough to invest in it

Ambassadors

1. 34 Ambassadors in 15 states (with 14 in training and 5 more states joining!)
2. Ambassadors who carry Simply Report cards everywhere, leaving them in public places
3. Community members praying those cards will be found by someone ready to exit
4. Volunteers who give their time to fight trafficking in their communities
5. People willing to get trained on identification and speak up

Our Team

1. The big, open, humble hearts of our entire team who show up every day for this mission
2. Leadership that leads with prayer, integrity, and servant hearts
3. The courage to build a team of incredible women who lift each other up instead of tearing each other down
4. A culture where everyone has a voice and drama has no place
5. The woman-power driving this organization forward with excellence

Resources & Learning

1. The resources we can connect survivors with to remove barriers
2. Attending the Global Leadership Summit and bringing those lessons back to our team
3. Learning from books like “High Road Leadership” to strengthen our integrity
4. Using tools like Clifton StrengthsFinder to understand how we work best together

The Daily Work

1. The little moments when things just “work” despite the odds
2. White papers that bring perspective and insight to complex issues
3. The ability to pull together what’s needed in crisis moments
4. A safe and productive place to rebel against something worth rebelling against – human trafficking

To everyone who stands with Safe House Project in the fight against human trafficking: thank you. Together, we’re changing lives and building a world where exploitation has no place.

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Because human trafficking can take so many forms and frequently relies on psychological rather than physical control, it can be very difficult to spot. However, learning to recognize the signs of trafficking is one of the most important things you can do to help someone who may be looking for help.

Whether you are a parent, teacher, healthcare provider, neighbor, or concerned community member, you do not need to be an expert to notice when something is wrong and take action. By staying alert and understanding the real red flags for human trafficking, you can be a vital part of creating opportunities for trafficking victims to find freedom and begin their journey to healing.

What Human Trafficking Looks Like

Human trafficking is defined as the exploitation of individuals through force, fraud, or coercion to perform labor or engage in commercial sexual activity. It is important to note that any commercial sexual activity involving minors is considered sex trafficking, regardless of the presence of force, fraud, or coercion. In the U.S., the legal definition of human trafficking includes both sex trafficking and labor trafficking, although sex trafficking is more commonly identified.

Many people assume that human trafficking victims are always strangers, from other countries, or people who have been kidnapped and held captive. However, most U.S. cases involve traffickers that the victim already knows and trusts. This is often a family member, romantic partner, friend, employer, or other authority figure. In fact, between 80% and 90% of U.S. human trafficking victims in 2020 were exploited by someone they knew. This reality makes human trafficking incredibly difficult to detect. Victims often remain in their home communities and continue to live outwardly “normal” lives while experiencing unimaginable abuse in silence. 

Another misconception is that victims of human trafficking are unable to leave because of physical restraints. This is usually not the case, as traffickers use a wide range of control tactics to gain and maintain power over their victims. These may include physical violence, psychological abuse and manipulation, threats of harm to themselves or their loved ones, isolation from familial or social support systems, and financial abuse. Many traffickers also introduce trauma bonds, in which they use cycles of abuse and affection or approval to create strong psychological attachments with their victims. In some cases, traffickers weaponize essential needs like food, shelter, or medication to control their victims or threaten to expose private information or images. Many traffickers force their victims to use drugs or alcohol to make them more compliant or take advantage of existing addictions. Some traffickers use law enforcement as a threat, saying that their victims will be arrested, imprisoned, or even deported. These methods create a constant state of fear, dependence, confusion, and isolation, making it extremely difficult for victims to seek help or leave on their own.

Red Flags of Human Trafficking

There is no one-size-fits-all indicator that someone is being trafficked, since human trafficking takes so many forms in many different populations. However, there are behavioral, emotional, physical, and situational signs that may suggest someone is experiencing exploitation. These signs do not confirm trafficking on their own, but if multiple are present, it is always worth reporting your concerns.

• Behavioral Red Flags:

• • • Seems unusually fearful, anxious, paranoid, or tense
    • Avoids eye contact or social interaction
    • Appears withdrawn, depressed, or overly submissive
    • Seems coached or unable to speak freely
    • Has inconsistencies in their story or avoids answering personal questions

• Physical & Environmental Red Flags:

• • • Has visible bruises, cuts, burns, or other signs of physical abuse, especially if in various stages of healing
    • Lacks personal possessions or appears to wear the same clothes repeatedly
    • Is always busy but does not share what they are doing
    • Seems malnourished or poorly cared for
    • Is not in control of their identification documents
    • Is always accompanied by someone who speaks for them or appears controlling

• Work & School Red Flags:

• • • Works long hours with no breaks or days off
    • Cannot leave their workplace or living situation without permission
    • Suddenly stops attending school or starts missing activities
    • Has expensive belongings they cannot afford
    • Expresses fear, confusion, or shame about where they live or work

• Relationship Red Flags:

• • Refers to an older boyfriend, boss, or friend who is controlling about their time and social contact
  • Talks about owing someone money or needing to meet a quota
  • Expresses fear of disappointing or angering someone in their life
  • Appears to be in a relationship that is unequal or manipulative
  • Seems isolated from friends or family or is secretive about their social circle
  • Refrains from discussing their home life or family

Many trafficking victims are taught to be afraid of outsiders, and may fear retaliation if they do share something they aren’t supposed to. They may not disclose their abuse, even if asked directly. This makes it especially important to pay attention to your instincts and look for patterns of red flags.

Who Is Most Vulnerable to Trafficking?

Trafficking victims represent all demographic groups in the United States, but some populations are disproportionately targeted due to other social or systemic risk factors. Instead of focusing on a single demographic, most traffickers look for existing vulnerabilities that they can use to isolate and control their victims.

Trafficking victims often represent one or more of the following groups:

• Children in unstable home situations, foster care, or the juvenile justice system
• Individuals experiencing homelessness, unemployment, or poverty
• LGBTQ+ youth facing family rejection or social isolation
• People with disabilities or mental health problems
• Individuals with a history of abuse or neglect, especially those with high ACE scores
• Survivors of domestic violence or sexual assault
• Immigrants or undocumented individuals with limited legal protections

Most traffickers seek out people who are already struggling to meet their basic needs, lack strong support systems, or have limited capacity to make their own choices. They may promise love, protection, employment, housing, or opportunity, only to later use those promises as tools for manipulation.

What Should You Do If You Suspect Trafficking?

If you have reason to believe that someone may be in a trafficking situation, it is important to act carefully to protect both yourself and the potential victim from harm. Confronting the trafficker or victim directly can result in increased danger, so instead, take the following steps:

• Document what you see. Take note of the person’s appearance, behavior, and any relevant details, such as license plate numbers, addresses, or interactions. Make sure to write down which red flags you noticed, as well as names and the time and date of concerning events. Any of these details might be a critical piece of helping that potential victim.

• Report your concerns. Even if you aren’t certain that what you’re seeing is human trafficking, you can still make a report. You aren’t responsible for proving that trafficking is taking place — trained professionals can use your report to take safe, careful action.

You can make a report by:

• Submitting a tip through Safe House Project’s Simply Report app, which will be directed to the appropriate law enforcement office.
• Calling local law enforcement, using 911 if someone is in immediate danger and a non-emergency line otherwise.

Reports can be made anonymously, and every tip helps build a fuller picture of what might be happening.

If the trafficking victim is alone and in a safe situation, they can contact Safe House Project directly for immediate support by calling our team at 507-769-0819 or filling out our support form at https://www.safehouseproject.org/refer/. 

• Do not try to intervene yourself. Trafficking situations are often complex and dangerous. Trying to help the victim can put yourself at risk, or result in the victim being punished. It is always safer to let professionals with experience handle the situation.

What You Can Do To Help Now

Every person can make a difference in the fight against human trafficking in their own community. You can start by:

• Learning the signs of human trafficking and educating others in your community, such as:
  • Taking Safe House Project’s free OnWatch training
  • Exploring Safe House Project’s other training courses
• Supporting local organizations that provide housing, care, and advocacy for trafficking survivors through donations or volunteering
• Become a Safe House Project Ambassador to learn to raise awareness and train your community to combat human trafficking
• Downloading the Simply Report app

Together, we can restore hope, freedom, and a future to every survivor.

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To ensure congregate care supports rather than derails healing, programs must prioritize flexibility, individual dignity, and mutual trust. How these spaces are set up can either deepen a survivor’s sense of safety or reinforce the dynamics of control they are trying to leave behind.

The Limits of Congregate Care

Residential models for trafficking recovery care are not a one-size-fits-all solution. Healing is not a linear process, and it certainly is not universally experienced. For some survivors, the presence of others in close quarters provides comfort, a sense of belonging due to shared experiences, and daily support. For others, being constantly surrounded by people, especially strangers, can feel overwhelming, or even triggering. Many survivors are able to navigate their own healing journey without participating in structured residential care programs, especially when they are able to access external resources in their own community.

Programs that offer non-residential options, such as scattered-site housing and transitional access to therapeutic care, avoid these damaging assumptions that all survivors need or want communal living. When survivors are given the opportunity to choose how and where they heal, it opens doors for meaningful engagement in systems of care. A survivor’s participation in trafficking recovery care should affirm their agency and ability to make good decisions, not another space where control is removed.

Centering Survivor Perspectives

Many congregate care programs are designed by leadership and staff who do not live in them or have lived experience with human trafficking. Even with the best intentions, this distance from the survivors’ reality can result in care environments that feel overly structured, inflexible, or disconnected from their needs. Survivors are often expected to adapt to systems that were not designed for their real needs for support, leaving them feeling dismissed or disempowered when their experience in the program doesn’t align with what program staff believe is best for them.

Programs thrive when survivors are invited into the design, which is often best accomplished by including survivor leaders in the development process. This means not only listening to their feedback on current practices but also allowing their expertise to shape policies, routines, and expectations. Survivor-informed environments are more adaptive, more respectful, and ultimately more effective. Centering the voices of survivor leaders communicates to survivors entering the program that they can and should be active participants in their own healing journeys.

Making Structure Work

Clear programmatic structure is often considered a key element of trauma-informed care, and when implemented thoughtfully, it can be highly impactful for survivors as they build stability. Survivors can benefit greatly from predictable routines and straightforward expectations, especially as they move out of survival mode and the chaos of trafficking situations. However, structure alone is not enough to create safety. When rules are rigid, unexplained, or inflexible for personal needs, they can result in control rather than support.

After a trafficking experience, survivors are constantly evaluating whether they can trust their environment and whether their needs are going to be acknowledged and met. A primary question for many survivors is whether they are free to say no at all. In these circumstances, effective structure in trafficking recovery programs must balance consistency with individual autonomy, making sure that survivors feel supported while helping them establish helpful rhythms and stability. These programs create space for the setbacks inevitable in non-linear healing and are responsive to the evolving needs of survivors over their time in the program.

Supporting the Whole Person

Trafficking survivors bring their full selves into congregate care settings — their sense of identity, personal history, cultural backgrounds, family roles, and spiritual beliefs. For these programs to be truly supportive, they must do more than treat the symptoms of trauma and meet survivors’ basic needs. They must create space for the complexity of each individual survivor. Healing happens most effectively in environments where survivors are seen not only as people who have experienced harm, but also as parents, community members, and cultural individuals with deep personal identities.

• Parenting Support

Many trafficking survivors are also parents, but few congregate care models are designed to accommodate their children or pregnancy. Survivors are often forced to choose between receiving critical services or remaining with their kids — an impossible decision that undermines both healing and family stability.

To address this gap, congregate care programs should:

• Include parenting resources in their core services, such as access to childcare, parenting education, and trauma-informed supports specific to the needs of mothers and children.
• Offer housing options that support family living.
• Train staff to respond to the needs of both survivors and their children, with special attention to the ways trauma can affect parenting, attachment, and child development.
• Develop policies that support, rather than penalize, the additional pressures and complexity of parenting as a trafficking survivor.

• Cultural Inclusion

Inclusion also extends to cultural identity. When programs fail to reflect the racial, cultural, or ethnic diversity of the survivors they serve, it sends an implicit message about who belongs. This can be as subtle as not providing appropriate hair or skin care, or as obvious as being the only person of their background in the program or on staff.

Care that affirms cultural identity should include:

• Representation in staffing and leadership whenever possible, which helps survivors feel understood and welcome in the program.
• Access to culturally appropriate food, hygiene items, and language support.
• Respect for diverse family structures and customs, allowing for flexibility in routines, celebrations, and communication styles that vary across cultures.
• Program content that respects multiple cultural perspectives, such as materials, media, and activities that are not rooted in a single cultural narrative.
• Willingness to adapt and learn, recognizing that no program can be perfectly representative but all can be teachable and responsive.

• Faith & Spiritual Autonomy

Many congregate care programs have foundations in certain religions or faith traditions. For some survivors, spirituality is a vital part of their healing. For others, especially those who experienced spiritual abuse or manipulation during exploitation, faith may be a source of pain or distrust.

Programs can support spiritual healing without coercion by:

• Always making faith-based activities optional, ensuring that participation is never a condition for receiving services or progressing in the program
• Creating space for exploration, questions, or distance from religion.
• Respecting each survivor’s personal beliefs without pressure to conform, including those with no religious beliefs or those practicing less-represented faiths.
• Equipping staff to navigate spiritual care with humility, including recognizing the difference between offering support and imposing belief.
• Providing access to spiritual or cultural leaders when requested.

Building Lasting Healing

Congregate care can play a meaningful role in a survivor’s healing journey, but its true success lies in how well it prepares survivors for long-term independence. Programs should build toward this from the start by teaching practical skills, increasing autonomy, and offering continued support after exit. When programs center survivor voices and foster trust, they create more than temporary shelter. They offer a foundation where survivors can build stability, reclaim identity, and move forward with confidence.

To learn more about survivor experiences in congregate care, watch Safe House Project’s webinar Inside the Experience: Understanding Life in Congregate Care Settings.

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Leadership shapes how staff interact with survivors, how teams function under pressure, and whether programs provide consistency or chaos. In trauma-informed spaces, the tone set by leadership often determines how safe a survivor feels and how well staff are able to function in their roles over time. Trust is built not only through compassionate direct care but also through the systems that support it. When leaders operate with clarity and accountability, they build organizations where both staff and survivors can thrive.

Why Leadership Matters in Survivor Care

After experiencing betrayal and misuse of authority in exploitation, many trafficking survivors pay close attention to the power dynamics of the spaces they enter. Their ability to heal often depends on whether their environment feels safe, predictable, and support.

Organizational leadership plays a direct role in creating those spaces. Programs where leaders are disengaged or inconsistent risk mirroring the instability that survivors experienced during trafficking. In contrast, programs led by people who are intentionally present and supportive create a different dynamic, one marked by mutual respect and trust.

Effective leadership:

• Sets the emotional tone for staff teams
• Creates operational consistency that survivors can rely on
• Builds trust by following through on commitments
• Helps staff feel equipped and empowered

Additionally, trusted leadership must shift the focus from controlling outcomes or being the spotlight; rather, its defining characteristic should be about how leaders show up and create space for their team to succeed.

Trusted leaders:

• Are present and proactive, especially in moments of stress or conflict
• Listen to their team’s concerns without defensiveness
• Follow through on their promises and expectations
• Share power rather than make decisions alone
• Model accountability when mistakes are made

This level of integrity in leadership is strongly felt through organizations. Staff know that they can trust their leaders to support them, and that sense of trust spreads outward to the survivors in their care.

Creating Consistent Support Structures for Staff

Direct service anti-trafficking staff are regularly exposed to complex trauma, moments of crisis, and high emotional intensity. This work is meaningful, but also exhausting. Without adequate support from leadership, even the most dedicated and qualified staff will burn out.

Leaders can help mitigate this by:

• Creating a regular check-in schedule outside of performance evaluations
• Encouraging meaningful rest practices and healthy boundaries
• Responding early to signs of burnout or overwhelm
• Providing supervision that is both practical and emotionally supportive
• Creating room for feedback, reflection, and innovation

When staff feel supported, they are more likely to be able to adjust their work practices to protect their well-being and remain effective in their role in the long term.

Building Consistency Survivors Can Rely On

After a trafficking experience, inconsistency can feel dangerous to survivors. Unpredictable schedules, sudden staff changes, or unclear communication can active trauma responses. For a survivor, this can feel like confirmation that safety is still out of reach.

Leadership that prioritizes consistency helps survivors experience changes as safe and manageable. This may look like:

• Clearly communicated expectations for both team members and survivors
• Stable staff teams and transparent communication when changes are made
• Boundaries that are upheld and reinforced across the team
• Programs that don’t change abruptly or without prior explanation
• Follow-through on rules, resources, and next steps

This steadiness helps survivors feel grounded and included in their own healing process, allowing trust to grow. It also gives staff a strong framework in which to make confident, thoughtful decisions in the daily rhythm of the program.

Leading Sith Humility & Accountability

Truly effective organizational leaders depend not on perfection, but on humility and integrity. They are willing to acknowledge their limitations, admit when they are wrong, and accept feedback from all staff members without defensiveness.

Humility in leadership creates:

• Psychological safety for staff to speak openly and share ideas
• Openness to feedback and opportunities for growth or improvement
• Less fear of failure, which encourages innovation and learning
• Reduced power imbalances based on organizational hierarchy

Leaders who say, “I got that wrong, let’s try again,” are often more respected and effective than those who attempt to maintain an image of perfection. This kind of leadership invites collaboration, which is an essential building block for highly impactful organizations.

Preventing Burnout From the Top

Staff burnout is one of the most significant challenges in anti-trafficking work. The emotional intensity, exposure to secondary trauma, and high-stakes decision-making take a toll on even the most committed staff. Over time, without strong support systems, this exhaustion can lead to high turnover, disconnection, and diminished quality of care for survivors.

Burnout may be common, but it is not inevitable. Leadership plays a critical role in creating cultures where staff well-being is protected and sustainability is prioritized. When leaders are proactive in identifying signs of fatigue and responsive in meeting those needs, they help teams remain grounded and resilient.

Leaders can prevent burnout by:

• Setting clear and realistic expectations for workloads and working hours
• Encouraging time-wide wellness practices
• Allowing flexibility where appropriate
• Celebrating small wins, not just major milestones
• Investing in professional development and well-being support

Beyond creating instability in a program, staff turnover can be detrimental for survivors. When staff leave frequently, it disrupts important relationships between survivors and staff, creating gaps in service provision and often forcing survivors to build trust from the ground up.

Putting Values Into Practice

Most anti-trafficking organizations list values such as dignity, empowerment, and compassion as central to their mission. These values are often included on websites and in annual reports, staff training, and fundraising messaging. However, these values hold power only when they are consistently practiced.

The most effective leaders live out these values in how they lead their teams, build programmatic systems, and make decisions. Value-driven leadership is exemplified in:

• Decision-making that reflects the mission, not just metrics
• Staff voices being included in shaping both policy and practice
• Organizational priorities that reflect care for both survivors and the people serving them
• A culture that expects accountability for what is said and what is done

Mutual trust and respect grow when leaders represent the values of the mission, strengthening the foundational purpose of the organization and magnifying its impact.

Leading the Way to Long-Term Change

Leadership in anti-trafficking organizations is not just about guiding strategy or managing operations. It is about cultivating a culture where trust, safety, and integrity become the foundation for everything else. Survivors need more than well-designed programs — they need environments where stability is modeled and relationships are built with care. That kind of culture begins at the top.

The work of ending trafficking and restoring freedom will never be sustained by policy or programming alone. It will be led by people who recognize that real change is slow, relational, and deeply human. Those who lead with integrity pave the way for care that lasts.

For more information on building resilient, highly impactful programs through trusted leadership, explore:

• • Safe House Project’s webinar From the Top Down: Trusted Leadership in Anti-Trafficking

• Addressing Staff Burnout: A Strategic Framework for the Anti-Trafficking Field

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When people first learn about human trafficking, one of the most common reactions is disbelief that someone would continue to stay in such an abusive and dangerous situation. The question that often follows is, “Why don’t they just leave?” This question, though understandable, reflects a lack of understanding about how human trafficking operates, the levels and severity of abuse experienced by survivors, and the complex barriers they face to finding freedom. In reality, leaving a trafficking situation is not a matter of willpower, but a long process of overcoming compounding layers of psychological, emotional, physical, legal, and systemic barriers that are often invisible to the rest of the world.

• Complicated Relationships Between Traffickers & Victims

A significant majority of human trafficking situations involve a complex and pre-existing relationship between the trafficker and their victim. Many are exploited by someone they know and, in many cases, someone they love and trust. Their trafficker may be a parent or grandparent, a trusted adult, a romantic partner, a close friend, or an authority figure like a coach, employer, or community leader. Traffickers will often take advantage of a vulnerable person’s trust in them to start the grooming process, breaking down their boundaries and creating dependence. For many victims, the deep affection and loyalty they feel to their trafficker maintains a strong emotional bond, despite the abuse and mistreatment they experience.

The complexity of the trafficker/victim relationship is often a serious barrier to the survivor’s ability to leave. They may believe that they are betraying or abandoning their trafficker, especially in situations involving family members or romantic partners. Many fear that reporting the exploitation would harm their trafficker, send them to prison, or cost them a job or other relationships. While victims may recognize that they do not deserve to be treated this way, the emotional bond with their trafficker may seem too important to risk. Leaving can cost a trafficking victim an important relationship with family members, friends, or their community. The decision to break these bonds takes incredible courage.

• Psychological Trauma & Trauma Bonds

Every survivor of human trafficking experiences complex trauma, often resulting in debilitating psychological issues that deeply affect their daily lives. 98% of survivors report at least one mental health problem while being trafficked, with an average number of more than 10 concerns. Survivors experience extremely high rates of clinical depression, anxiety disorders, complex PTSD, and other severe psychological conditions. On top of the day-to-day impact of trauma, these serious conditions can significantly impair a trafficking victim’s ability to think clearly, make decisions, or trust their own judgment. Trauma often distorts their perception of safety, healthy relationships, self-worth, and even reality, making it difficult to recognize abuse or believe that a different life is possible. Many survivors feel paralyzed by fear, guilt, shame, or dependence on their trafficker, all of which are intensified by mental health conditions. Without access to comprehensive and trauma-informed support, the mental and emotional weight of their experiences can make leaving feel not just unsafe, but impossible.

Psychological challenges are often compounded by trauma bonds, which are powerful emotional attachments that form when a victim experiences repeated cycles of affection and abuse from their trafficker. The trafficker may provide affection, attention, or gifts in one moment and become abusive in the next. These intermittent reward/punishment cycles create a distorted sense of loyalty or love, making the victim believe that they are at fault, that they are inherently worthless, and that no one else would care for them. This emotional entanglement becomes a significant barrier for trafficking victims to leave their abusers.

• Lack of Access to Basic Necessities

Most trafficking victims do not have access to independent sources of housing, food, or income apart from their trafficker. Survivors may believe that leaving is impossible because they have nowhere to go, no money to buy food or necessities, or even no phone to call for help. These are not theoretical concerns, as many survivors live with the constant threat of homelessness, starvation, or danger on the streets if they act out or try to leave. This is especially true for minor survivors, undocumented individuals, and those without any support systems, safe family members, or access to community services. Survivors frequently report staying in trafficking situations longer because it was the only way to meet their immediate needs.

• Fear of Retaliation & Violence

Traffickers often use threats of physical harm, violence, or assault to maintain control over their victims. These threats can extend beyond their victims to their family, children, or friends, and traffickers frequently prove their willingness to punish their victims through violence. 92% of trafficking survivors report experiencing physical violence during exploitation, including sexual assaults, beatings, and strangulation. The fear of retaliation keeps many trafficking victims in exploitation, as they are forced to choose between staying in a highly dangerous and abusive situation or risking real harm to themselves or someone they love.

• Forced Substance Use & Addiction

Substance use is frequently used by traffickers as a method of control, with some victims forced or coerced into drug or alcohol use and others misusing substances to cope with the trauma. For many trafficking victims, the prospect of leaving becomes even more difficult due to fear of withdrawal, lack of treatment options, or shame. Unfortunately, a significant number of emergency support services, like local shelters, exclude individuals struggling with addiction or with recent substance use. Many survivors believe they will not be believed or helped, especially if they have faced judgment or rejection when attempting to report abuse in the past, making these psychological barriers just as powerful as physical ones. 

• Criminalization & Fear of Law Enforcement

Many survivors are afraid to reach out for help because they fear arrest, deportation, or further abuse by authorities. This fear is often rooted in experience, as trafficking survivors are frequently criminalized for acts they were forced to commit, such as drug use or prostitution. These criminal records create lasting barriers to housing, employment, and legal protection. For undocumented survivors, the fear of deportation is compounded by threats from their traffickers. Even those with legal status may have experienced negative or traumatic encounters with law enforcement, and without trauma-informed responses, attempts to seek help can result in retraumatization or incarceration instead of support.

• Isolation & Emotional Manipulation

Traffickers often isolate victims by cutting them off from friends, family, and any external support systems. This may be done physically by moving them to different locations or emotionally by instilling fear, shame, and distrust. Victims are frequently told that no one will believe them, that they are to blame for their situation, or that they will be arrested if they speak up. This manipulation is especially effective for individuals who are already marginalized, such as LGBTQ+ people, those living with disabilities, or people of color, who may have already experienced rejection or discrimination. The result is a deep sense of powerlessness and disconnection that makes reaching out for help feel impossible.

• Systemic Gaps in Survivor Services

The lack of trauma-informed, survivor-centered services in the United States is a major barrier to freedom. Fewer than 1% of trafficking victims are ever identified, and of those who are, at least 80% are revictimized due to lack of emergency support or access to long-term care. Survivors who attempt to lelave trafficking situations often find themselves without a place to go or may wait weeks or months for a spot in a safe house program. During that time, they remain vulnerable to coercion, exploitation, violence, and homelessness. The limited availability of immediate and comprehensive services often leads survivors back to their traffickers or into another trafficking situation simply to survive.

Understanding how human trafficking affects survivors is essential to understanding why it is so difficult to leave. Instead of asking why survivors don’t leave exploitation, a more accurate question is, “What is preventing them from leaving, and what can we do to help?” The answer lies in recognizing that trafficking is not simply a series of bad choices or isolated events but a system of control that exploits a person’s vulnerabilities and strips away their independence. Survivors need pathways to safety that address both immediate needs and long-term healing, including safe housing, trauma-informed care, legal advocacy, and supportive communities. Effectively addressing the crisis of human trafficking requires us to intentionally dismantle the systems that leave people vulnerable to exploitation and prevent them from finding hope, freedom, and a future.

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One of the greatest challenges in addressing these missed opportunities for identification is that most healthcare professionals do not know what human trafficking looks like in their community or in a clinical setting. Without the right training, survivors are regularly treated for injuries or illnesses without any questions being asked about what caused them. Trafficking survivors may interact with providers and other healthcare workers many times without being identified.

When healthcare providers understand what to look for and how to respond to human trafficking, they can transform a standard medical visit into a meaningful point of connection, and even a first step toward freedom.

Recognizing the Survivor in the Room

Trafficking survivors frequently present in clinical settings with a mix of physical, psychological, and behavioral health problems. These signs may not indicate exploitation on their own, but when multiple signs are observed in one patient or alongside unusual behaviors, they warrant further attention and screening.

Physical Health Indicators:

• Injuries or bruises that are untreated, poorly healed, or in various stages of healing
• Chronic infections or repeated sexually transmitted infections (STIs)
• Apparent evidence of rough or violent sexual activity
• Signs of malnutrition or dehydration
• Psychomatic symptoms, such as chronic pain with no clear medical cause
• Fatigue, sleep disturbances, or reported insomnia
• Frequent or recurring complaints of unexplained pain or discomfort

Mental or Behavioral Health Indicators:

• Anxiety, depression, or panic symptoms
• Emotional dysregulation or difficulty managing strong emotions
• Emotional numbness, withdrawal, or unresponsiveness during visits
• Nervousness or sensitivity to being asked questions or being touched
• Irritability, agitation, or being easily overwhelmed
• Difficulty focusing or maintaining consistency with follow-up care
• Signs of post-traumatic stress, such as hypervigilance or an exaggerated startle response

Substance Use Indicators:

• Reports of drug or alcohol use during periods of instability or coercion
• Substance use patterns that align with emotional stress or a desire to dissociate
• Difficulty remembering how much or when substances were last used
• Evidence or disclosure of being coerced or forced into using substances

Social & Environmental Indicators:

• Being accompanied to the medical visit by someone who answers questions for them or refuses to leave the room
• Hesitation to speak openly or make eye contact
• Signs of fear or deferring to another person before responding
• Lack of access to or control over identification documents or personal belongings
• No known address or reports of frequent moves, unstable housing, or homelessness
• Limited or no access to health insurance or consistent medical care

In many cases, survivors do not see themselves as victims of human trafficking, especially if they do not know what trafficking is. They may believe that their experiences are normal or deserved, or even the consequences of their own choices, especially if they were groomed at a young age or manipulated emotionally by a trusted individual. Healthcare providers must understand that trafficking survivors are not likely to use language like “abuse” or “trafficking” to describe their situation. Rather, providers should be aware of the common medical indicators of trafficking victimization and complete a screening process if there is any suspicion of potential exploitation.

Changing the Survivor Narrative in Healthcare

Healthcare providers can play a powerful role in helping trafficking survivors feel safe during medical visits and take advantage of the opportunity to seek help. Even small, intentional actions can change a survivor’s understanding that they will be believed if they speak up, changing their story from continued exploitation to freedom and healing.

• Addressing Stereotypes & Biases

Providers must prevent their own perceptions about trafficking victims from impacting their ability to see the signs of exploitation in any patient. This is especially important when considering how often trafficking survivors present in healthcare spaces with other primary concerns, such as homelessness, addiction, mental health challenges, behavioral health problems, or sexual health issues.

• Investing in Training

The signs of human trafficking are often hidden behind other medical complaints. Survivors may seek care for injuries, infections, anxiety, pregnancy, or substance-related concerns, but these symptoms result from ongoing abuse rather than the more common reasons. With targeted and comprehensive education, medical workers can learn to recognize these patterns, ask gentle and non-threatening screening questions, and respond effectively when the signs of exploitation become clearer.

• Offering Privacy

Many healthcare organizations have existing policies about separating patients from guests or asking standard questions about feeling safe, but these practices should be taken a step further if there is any suspicion of trafficking activity. Many survivors are not allowed to attend medical visits without being accompanied by their trafficker, and they are unlikely to disclose sensitive information even if their trafficker is not in the room. Offering an intentional private moment, even under the pretense of a routine procedure, can be a critical opportunity for a provider to invite self-disclosure and for a survivor to feel safe enough to share.

• Prioritizing Clarity & Consent

Many survivors of human trafficking experience ongoing violations of their boundaries and agency, including invasive or dehumanizing treatment from people in positions of authority. Medical procedures can feel threatening or triggering, even when they are standard practices or medically necessary. It is critical for providers to present choices during examinations and clear explanations of all procedures and steps, along with asking for consent before physical contact, to help survivors feel more secure during a healthcare visit.

• Recognizing Trauma Responses

The way a trafficking survivor expresses fear, pain, or distress may look very different from what a healthcare worker expects. Survivors are often forced to control or hide their emotions in order to prevent further harm, and this response can become a habit that appears even in situations that are not exploitative. However, understanding that these behaviors are common trauma responses can help providers respond with empathy instead of frustration.

• Creating Calm Environments

The sensory experience of a healthcare visit can deeply impact a survivor’s sense of safety, especially when considering the effect of loud noises, intense conversations, and rapidly changing environments on individuals with complex trauma or PTSD. Providers can mitigate this by speaking clearly, making intentional eye contact, and creating space in the conversation for survivors to express their need for a calmer environment. Even small changes, like offering a quiet space to sit or waiting to ask questions until in a more private space, can be significant.

• Providing Trusted Resources

Many survivors, even if they choose to share about their experiences, may not be ready to take action during a healthcare visit. In all situations, providers should have access to an existing list of vetted resources, including local shelters, advocacy groups, crisis hotlines, or mental health providers, to encourage survivors to consider tangible options without forcing a decision. Providing this information discreetly may equip survivors to hold on to it longer and take action when they are ready.

For many survivors of human trafficking, the healthcare system may be one of the few places where help is accessible. Providers who are willing to look beyond surface-level symptoms and engage patients with care, curiosity, and patience have a unique opportunity to create a transformative moment of safety. Every appointment or encounter, no matter how routine, holds the potential to become a turning point for trafficking survivors living in exploitation.

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He replied to her story. Told her she was beautiful. That he got her. That she wasn’t like the other girls. That she deserved better.

She was 14. Smart. Loved. And lonely. He knew all of that by what she posted. It only took a few weeks before he asked her to send a photo. Then another. Then one she never thought she’d send.

By the time she realized what was happening, she felt too trapped to ask for help.

This wasn’t a movie plot. It was a trafficking case and it started on social media.

When a Trafficker Is Just a Click Away

Most people imagine trafficking as a physical crime. A kidnapping. A van. A foreign border.

But trafficking doesn’t always look like movement. And traffickers don’t need to break in. They just need a friend request.

In reality, social media is now the most common gateway traffickers use to access, groom, and exploit victims; especially children.

From Instagram to Snapchat, Discord to TikTok, traffickers use the same tools teens use to stay connected. And they are incredibly good at it.

What Is Online Grooming?

Online grooming is the process by which a predator builds emotional trust with a child to manipulate and exploit them.

It doesn’t look like force at first. It looks like friendship.

The Online Grooming Process

• Targeting: The trafficker finds a child through posts, hashtags, or friend lists
• Engagement: They build trust through flattery, shared interests, and fake intimacy
• Isolation: They push the child to keep the conversation secret
• Exploitation: They ask for photos, personal information, or to meet up
• Control: Once the child complies, they use shame or threats to escalate the abuse

The child may think they’re in love. That this person understands them. That they’re in control. But they’re not.

It’s calculated. It’s common. And it’s costing lives.

Who Are the Victims of Social Media Trafficking?

Anyone. That’s the answer.

The idea that only “certain kinds of kids” are at risk is a myth and a dangerous one.

We’ve worked with survivors who were:

• Straight-A students
• Athletes
• Teens from suburban neighborhoods
• Youth group members
• Kids in foster care
• LGBTQ+ youth
• Homeschooled children

The one thing they had in common? They were accessible. They were vulnerable. And someone was watching.

The New Normal for Predators

Predators don’t need to hang around malls anymore. They can scan hashtags and geotags. They can DM ten kids a day.

And unlike past generations, today’s children are growing up online, often with more digital access than digital safety.

Here’s what makes social media trafficking so effective:

Predators Know What Works

• They study behavior: They know which posts signal loneliness or instability
• They’re patient: Grooming can take weeks or months — they’re willing to wait
• They build fake identities: Posing as peers, mentors, or talent scouts
• They escalate slowly: Moving from compliments to control
• They stay anonymous: Apps allow for secrecy and multiple accounts

By the time a child realizes what’s happening, it’s not a stranger. It’s someone they believe they love.

What Platforms Are Being Used?

According to federal case data and survivor reports, these platforms are most commonly used by traffickers:

• Instagram
• Snapchat
• TikTok
• Facebook Messenger
• Discord
• WhatsApp
• Kik
• Online games like Fortnite, Roblox, Minecraft

These platforms allow predators to message privately, share disappearing content, or send payment, all within a single app.

Why Kids Don’t Tell

Even when kids feel uncomfortable, they often stay quiet. Here’s why:

• They think they’re in a relationship
• They feel embarrassed or ashamed
• They don’t want to lose phone privileges
• They’re being blackmailed
• They don’t understand it’s trafficking
• They’re afraid no one will believe them

This silence is exactly what predators count on. That’s why we can’t wait for red flags to appear. We have to start the conversation first.

How to Spot the Signs of Online Grooming

Behavioral Red Flags

• Sudden changes in mood, appearance, or friend group
• Secretive behavior around devices
• Gifts, money, or items they can’t explain
• Talking about a new older “friend” or “boyfriend”
• Skipping school or activities
• Emotional reactivity when asked about phone use

Digital Red Flags

• Constant messaging from one person
• Use of multiple or hidden apps
• Refusing to share passwords with parents
• Hiding or deleting conversations
• Following accounts that seem inappropriate for their age

If you notice several of these, trust your gut. Ask questions with empathy, not accusation.

Six Steps to Keep Your Kids Safe Online

You don’t need to know every new app. But you do need to stay connected.

Steps You Can Take Today

• Talk about it early: Normalize conversations about online safety and manipulation.
• Keep screens out of bedrooms at night: Set boundaries around when and where devices are used.
• Know the apps: Be aware of which apps allow messaging and disappearing content.
• Ask to follow them: Engage with their content. Stay involved without invading.
• Reinforce trust: Let them know they can come to you no matter what.
• Take the OnWatch training: Our free, survivor-informed training helps you recognize the signs others miss.

Additional Section 1: How Online Games Have Become a Recruitment Zone

Social media isn’t the only risk. Gaming platforms have become active recruitment channels.

Apps like Fortnite, Roblox, Minecraft, and VRChat are popular with kids and traffickers know it.

What Makes Gaming Risky

• Voice chat and messaging
• Lack of parental oversight
• Anonymity through avatars
• Children playing unsupervised for hours

Grooming often starts with compliments, offers of in-game currency, or adult players “mentoring” younger ones. From there, it moves into deeper conversations and off-platform chats.

Additional Section 2: What Educators, Coaches, and Faith Leaders Should Know

You may be the first adult to notice something is wrong.

Educators, mentors, coaches, and church leaders are in a unique position to observe changes in students’ behavior.

Warning Signs to Look For

• Falling grades or absenteeism
• Dramatic personality changes
• Emotional outbursts or withdrawal
• References to an older “friend”
• Unexplained gifts, devices, or money

If something feels off, it probably is. Report concerns. Connect with families. Learn the signs of trafficking and online grooming.

Additional Section 3: Racial and Gender Gaps in Identification

Research shows that male victims of social media trafficking are less likely to be identified and helped.

Harmful myths like “boys aren’t trafficked” or “that kid’s just acting out” mean that thousands of victims are overlooked every year.

Safe House Project is committed to training professionals and communities to overcome these biases. Every child deserves to be seen.

Additional Section 4: How You Talk About This Matters

When kids hear silence from the adults in their lives, they fill in the blanks themselves.

Say This:

• “You can tell me anything.”
• “Real love never asks you to keep secrets.”
• “If someone makes you uncomfortable online, I’ll never blame you.”
• “Even if you made a mistake, you are not alone.”

Avoid Saying:

• “I thought you were smarter than that.”
• “That would never happen to you.”
• “Only girls get trafficked.”
• “Just block them.”

Kids need honesty. Not fear-based lectures. But safety through connection.

What You Can Do Today

• Get trained with OnWatch — our free, one-hour program that helps you identify and respond to trafficking in your community.
• Donate to help place survivors in safe housing.
• Share this blog with a parent, teacher, coach, or student.

When you know the signs, you can stop the cycle.

Conclusion: The New Face of Trafficking Is Digital

The trafficker isn’t hiding in the bushes. He’s waiting in a friend request. A DM. A game invite.

If we keep waiting until trafficking looks obvious, we’ll keep missing it.

But when we act early, with information, training, and compassion, we shift the odds.

Let’s stop imagining trafficking as something distant. It’s happening here. On the platforms our kids use every day.

It’s not too late to make social media safer. But we have to start now.

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It’s the sentence we hear the most.
The disbelief is always familiar. The nervous laugh, the quick head shake, the hopeful glance toward anything else.
Because the truth is harder to swallow: Human trafficking is not a foreign problem. It’s an American one.
It doesn’t require a border crossing. It doesn’t look like a white van in the parking lot.
It often looks like a child sold by someone they trust.
It looks like a teenager still showing up to school. A child still sleeping in their own bed.
Every year, an estimated 300,000 children are trafficked right here in the United States. And 40% of them?
They’re sold by a family member.

The Real Face of Trafficking in the U.S.

Human trafficking in America doesn’t match the movie scenes.
It rarely involves chains. It rarely involves strangers. It almost never involves movement across state lines.
In fact, movement isn’t even required for a case to qualify as trafficking.
According to the U.S. legal definition, what matters is exploitation, not location.

So what does trafficking really look like here?

• A 13-year-old girl being sold by her grandmother to cover rent
• A boy trafficked by his coach, youth leader, or even a parent
• A young woman manipulated online, promised a job, then threatened into sex work
• Victims of every race, gender, zip code, and faith background — from suburbs to small towns to cities

And yet, the myth persists:
“That happens over there.”
“That happens to other people.”
In a recent national data study, only 0.3% of Non-Gen Z respondents mentioned human trafficking as a top issue, ranking it 27th overall.

The issue isn’t just hidden. It’s misunderstood.

If We Want to End It, We Have to See It

When we keep trafficking at a distance, we keep survivors in the dark.
When we say, “That could never happen here,” we close the door to identifying the 99% of victims who remain unseen.
Yes — 99% of children trafficked in the U.S. are never identified.
We cannot fight what we refuse to see.
But once we name it, once we acknowledge that trafficking is happening in our neighborhoods, our schools, our churches, our families — something shifts.

• We start to notice the signs.
• We start asking better questions.
• We start funding real solutions — like safe housing, survivor-led programs, and prevention education.

And perhaps most importantly, we start telling the truth.

Here’s What to Do Next

You don’t need to have all the answers. You just need to start with action:

• Learn what trafficking actually looks like. Take our free OnWatch training — it’s survivor-informed and only takes an hour.
• Support survivor placement. Your donation helps us place victims into safe housing and comprehensive care.
• Sign the petition. Help us hold lawmakers accountable and advocate for stronger policies that protect children now.

Every child deserves safety. Every survivor deserves a future.
And every one of us has a role to play in making that possible.
The lie says trafficking is a foreign issue. The truth is it’s happening here.
And truth is where the work begins.

The Disconnect Between Headlines and Reality

Major news stories rarely show the day-to-day ways trafficking is sustained in U.S. communities.
You might hear about international rings. You might hear about sting operations. What you don’t hear about: the 15-year-old in rural Alabama being exploited after school. The 12-year-old in Northern Virginia quietly controlled by a family member. The system that misses them entirely.

This disconnect creates a dangerous effect: people wait to act until the problem looks cinematic.
But most trafficking cases don’t make the news — they unfold slowly, invisibly, and locally. If we’re only watching for drama, we’ll miss the people living it.

Survivors Are Already Speaking. Are We Listening?

Survivors know exactly what needs to change. They’ve told us — in surveys, in interviews, in legislation. They’ve said that shame, silence, and ignorance are barriers. That well-meaning people often say the wrong thing, or worse, nothing at all.

They don’t need pity. They need policy.
They don’t need saviors. They need systems that protect, fund, and follow through.

One survivor said it best:
“You gave me the greatest gift already. You gave me hope.”
We can’t give that hope if we’re still clinging to myths.

This Work Doesn’t Belong to Someone Else

It’s easy to believe this is someone else’s fight. Someone more experienced. More trained. More connected. But trafficking doesn’t wait for experts. It takes advantage of ordinary gaps in attention, compassion, and knowledge.

The places where we live, work, worship, and raise our kids — these are the places where prevention begins.

And we don’t need to have a background in law enforcement or social work to make a difference.

• A coach who sees the signs
• A teacher who believes the story
• A parent who starts a conversation
• A donor who funds another safe night

Trafficking exists in the cracks. So does the solution.

Safe House Project

At Safe House Project, we’re building a future where child trafficking ends with identification, intervention, and long-term care, not just escape.

Since 2017, we’ve empowered over 300,000 people to identify trafficking, supported the placement of hundreds of survivors into safe homes, and helped launch 479 beds across the U.S.

You don’t have to do everything. You just have to do something.
Join the fight. Donate, train, advocate, and help us end trafficking for good.

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What Increases a Child’s Risk of Being Trafficked?

Any child can be at risk of trafficking, but some factors significantly increase vulnerability to being targeted, such as:

• Living in an unstable home environment, like those affected by neglect, addiction, frequent conflict or change, poverty, or homelessness
• Experiencing emotional, physical, or sexual abuse
• Feeling socially isolated, disconnected from peers, or unable to seek support from adults
• Lacking access to consistent emotional support or supervision
• Spending large amounts of time online without adult guidance
• Identifying as part of the LGBTQ+ community
• Spending time in foster care or the juvenile justice system
• Having cognitive or physical disabilities

These vulnerabilities are not always easy to see, and a child may appear to be doing well on the outside while struggling internally. Many trafficked children continue to attend school and extracurricular activities while being exploited.

What Does Trafficking Look Like?

Most human traffickers take advantage of these existing vulnerabilities to gain control over their victims, rather than physical force or abduction. In fact, kidnapping cases make up a very small number of the total human trafficking cases in the U.S. each year, especially in child sex trafficking cases. Traffickers are far more likely to be a family member, romantic partner, authority figure, or another trusted person in the child’s life.

Instead, traffickers commonly use tactics like emotional manipulation and psychological abuse to isolate their victims from their support systems and create dependence on the trafficker for approval, affection, and other emotional needs. A cycle of abuse and affection creates trauma bonds, which can make it incredibly difficult for the victim to recognize what is happening to them and seek help. 

Traffickers may use the following strategies to connect with and exploit children:

• Grooming is a process by which a trafficker builds an escalating relationship with a potential victim to manipulate and exploit them. It often involves gaining a child’s trust, identifying and meeting a specific emotional or material need, and gradually introducing control, secrecy, or abuse. Other manipulation tactics like guilt-tripping and gaslighting are often used during the grooming process to make the victim doubt their experience and hesitate to tell someone. Grooming can happen in person or online, and may include flattery, love-bombing, extravagant gifts, attention, promises of safety, or meeting basic needs like food or shelter. Over time, the trafficker will use this emotional relationship and dependence to isolate the child and introduce sexual exploitation.

• Online relationships are an increasingly common method that child traffickers use to build relationships with children. Traffickers may pose as another child or a young adult to gain the child’s trust, often through shared interests, flattery, and emotional support. Once a relationship is formed, they use manipulation, secrecy, and coercion to pressure the child into sending explicit pictures or meeting in person. Some traffickers exploit children entirely online through threats, sextortion, or blackmail, while others arrange meetings to begin in-person abuse or exploitation. These tactics target a child’s need for connection and are often hidden through fear and shame.

• Coercion & isolation are often used by traffickers to maintain control over their victims and prevent them from seeking help. They may use threats, emotional manipulation, or addiction to create fear and dependence. Younger children might be told not to trust their parents or warned that their loved ones will be hurt if they speak out. Older children and teens are often manipulated through romantic interest, blackmail involving explicit images, or the introduction of drugs and alcohol. Traffickers may also control their victims’ access to food, housing, or money, using these basic needs as leverage.

How Can I Keep My Child Safe?

Children are most at risk of being targeted by human traffickers when they have a limited support system and little adult supervision. By taking steps to understand what trafficking is and how your child might be vulnerable, you are already well on your way to protecting your child. Continuing to build trust, fostering open communication, and teaching your child how to recognize unsafe people and situations is a powerful next step. Trafficking is preventable, and you are your child’s first and most important line of defense.

Talk Openly & Start Early

Having ongoing, age-appropriate conversations with your child can reduce their risk of being targeted by a trafficker. From a young age, teach your child about body safety, consent, boundaries, and what healthy relationships look like. Let them know that no topic is off-limits and that they can talk to you or another trusted adult about anything, even if it feels scary or uncomfortable.

• Ages 3-5:  Teach your child the correct names for their body parts and explain the difference between safe and unsafe touch. Simple illustrations like the “swimsuit rule”, in which no one should be allowed to touch or ask the child to touch areas covered by a swimsuit, can be helpful for children to understand physical boundaries without sexual context. Make sure to point out other safe adults in the child’s life, since traffickers often tell their victims not to say anything to their parents.

• Ages 6-9:  Reinforce the importance of their own and others’ personal boundaries. Teach your child the difference between fun surprises and unsafe secrets to help them recognize when to ask for help. Continue building their network of safe adults as they enter school and other activities, and make sure they know that it’s okay to talk to these adults in an emergency or when they are afraid or uncomfortable.

• Ages 10-13:  Begin having open, honest conversations about sex, consent, and body autonomy as your child enters pre-adolescence. Encouraging your child to ask questions can help remove the discomfort children feel about sex and establish open channels of communication if they need them later. Talk about the risks of pornography, sexting, and online grooming. Discuss where and how traffickers might approach them, both online and in person. Set digital safety guidelines together and ensure that their devices include contact information for trusted adults.

• Ages 14-18:  As your child gains independence, focus on helping them develop a strong sense of identity, self-worth, and decision-making skills. Encourage them to reflect on their relationships and online interactions, and continue having intentional conversations about boundaries, consent, and staying safe. Make sure your child knows that they can continue relying on you if they feel uncomfortable or unsafe as they enter adulthood.

For additional tips and guidance on protecting your children, download Safe House Project’s OnWatch: Protecting Our Children guide.

Be Aware of Online Activity

The internet is one of the most common tools that traffickers use to reach children. Social media, gaming platforms, and messaging apps allow traffickers to start conversations, build trust, and groom children, often without the knowledge of parents or guardians.

Talk to your child regularly about what is and isn’t appropriate to share online. Discuss the dangers of sexting, sextortion, and talking to strangers. Encourage them to tell a trusted adult if someone online is asking personal questions, sharing explicit content, or trying to meet in person.

Use monitoring tools and parental controls when appropriate, but focus on building trust with your child first. Imposing tools that children view as restrictive or invasive may push them to engage in more unsafe digital activity, so make sure to have collaborative conversations with your child about why monitoring is needed. Invite your child to participate in setting healthy boundaries for themself online. Keeping devices in shared family spaces and maintaining an open-door policy for digital conversations can help prevent secrecy.

For more tools and tips for safe online activity, explore Safe House Project’s Online Safety Guide.

Know the Warning Signs

Many children who are being trafficked do not show obvious signs, but there are common red flags that could indicate a problem:

• Unexplained absences from school or activities
• Running away or frequently sneaking out
• Older, controlling “friends” or romantic partners
• New or expensive items that they cannot explain
• Withdrawal, anxiety, or sudden personality changes
• Physical injuries, substance use, or overly sexualized behavior for their age

If something feels wrong, trust your instincts. Open a careful conversation, make sure they know that they can come back to talk to you, and seek help from professionals if needed.

Be Proactive

The most powerful protective factor for any child is a strong, trusting relationship with a safe adult. Traffickers often prey on isolation, so building emotional connection can significantly reduce a child’s vulnerability. Make time to engage in your child’s world by asking questions, staying involved, and being present.

Communities play an essential part in protecting children as well. Learn how to recognize and report trafficking through Safe House Project’s free OnWatch Training. Share prevention resources with schools, youth groups, and parent networks, and advocate for trafficking awareness and survivor support programs.

If you ever suspect that a child might be at-risk or in danger, it is always a good idea to report it. Contact your local law enforcement or child protective services, or use Safe House Project’s Simply Report app to submit a tip.

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The risks of online exploitation are expanding as quickly as the technology that enables it, and protecting children and youth requires informed, united, and proactive action.

A New Frontline in Online Exploitation

Phones, tablets, and gaming systems have blurred the line between physical and digital spaces. A child’s bedroom or classroom, once the safest spaces, can now be the setting for predatory contact. For some young people, especially those in foster care, the juvenile justice system, group homes, or those experiencing homelessness or social isolation, online spaces can feel like the only place they belong. That sense of connection, however, is exactly what traffickers exploit.

Online recruitment and grooming are rarely obvious. They often begin in ordinary conversations on social media, in group chats, or through multiplayer games. But the consequences, when these interactions escalate to abuse, extortion, or exploitation, are not limited to a child’s online life. Many victims carry deep emotional or psychological scars, driving too many to seek relief through risky behaviors, self-harm, or even suicide. This damage can reshape lives in permanent or long-standing ways.

How Predators Adapt

The digital environment has allowed predators and traffickers to scale their operations and mask their intentions in unprecedented ways. Many blend familiar grooming tactics with advanced technology, including:

• Platform hopping to move conversations from public social media to encrypted apps like WhatsApp or Telegram
• AI manipulation to create sexualized images, impersonate peers, or use chatbots to pressure youth into harmful actions
• Identity exploitation by posing as friends, classmates, or members of shared interest groups
• Gender-specific grooming, with praise and validation often used to target boys, and isolation tactics, love bombing, and threats used to target girls
• Large-scale criminal networks operating across states and countries, making identification and prosecution difficult

These strategies are highly effective in environments where children or youth are unsupervised online, or where caregivers, parents, or guardians are unaware of how quickly a seemingly harmless interaction can turn dangerous.

Barriers to Protection

The systems originally designed to keep children and youth safe online are struggling, and often failing, to keep pace with the advancement of technology and digital access. Laws like Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act and the Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act are decades out of date, written before the rise of modern social media and offering limited protection against today’s dangers. Recommendation algorithms, increasingly addictive and intuitive, intensify risk by steering young people toward escalating explicit content. For children, this can normalize unsafe behavior and lower defenses against predators. 

Turning Awareness Into Action

While the risks of online activity are serious, there are practical steps that families, communities, and organizations can take to protect themselves and those around them.

• Increase visibility and transparency. Use technology that flags explicit content, unusual conversations, or sudden changes in online behavior. Pair these tools with open, nonjudgmental conversations about what children are seeing and experiencing online.
• Integrate digital safety education. Schools can incorporate online safety into existing health or life skills programs. Community organizations can host workshops for parents, teachers, and mentors. National initiatives such as Gavin’s Law, the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children’s No Escape Room, and the Department of Homeland Security’s Know2Protect campaign demonstrate how interactive and age-specific training can prepare both youth and adults to identify and prevent exploitation.
• Build a culture of shared responsibility. Lawmakers can update outdated legislation and require greater transparency from tech companies. Platforms can commit to removing harmful content quickly and limiting features that enable grooming. Caregivers, parents, and guardians can model healthy digital habits and remain engaged in the online spaces their children use. Educators, coaches, and mentors can watch for warning signs and be a trusted source of support.

When every adult who interacts with youth understands their role in online safety, and when young people know how to recognize and respond to threats, communities become more resilient to exploitation.

Shaping a Safer Digital Future

The digital world will undoubtedly remain central to how children and youth learn, connect, and explore. The responsibility before us is to ensure that these spaces are safe, supportive, and free from exploitation. Meeting this responsibility requires decisive action on several fronts: updating laws to reflect the realities of modern technology, holding companies accountable for the safety of their platforms, and investing in prevention through proactive education, transparency, and community engagement.

Online threats are growing, but so can our capacity to respond. When communities work together — across families, schools, governments, and industries — we can minimize the risks, disrupt systems of exploitation, and build digital environments where young people can socialize and thrive without fear.

<p>The post Online Danger Zones first appeared on Safe House Project.</p>